27 GOOD-BYES
by Deanna Dikeman
I have not lived in my hometown, Sioux City, Iowa, since I graduated from college. I go “home” several times a year to visit Mom and Dad, but leaving is always hard for me. Mom gets choked up and Dad bravely waves. Sometimes I cry too.
In 1991, I rolled down the car window and snapped a 35mm Kodachrome photograph of Mom and Dad waving good-bye as my husband steered our car out of their driveway. In 1992, I made a black and white snapshot of another departure. I printed these pictures and thought that I had made enough photos of waving good-bye.
But in 1994, to ease my sadness about leaving, I decided to take more pictures. I was thinking that even if I had to drive away, at least I would have a photograph of Mom and Dad, somehow preserving their presence in my camera. And I started a tradition. From then on, every time I left I took a photo as I backed out of the driveway.
Here are 27 good-byes.
In 1991, I rolled down the car window and snapped a 35mm Kodachrome photograph of Mom and Dad waving good-bye as my husband steered our car out of their driveway. In 1992, I made a black and white snapshot of another departure. I printed these pictures and thought that I had made enough photos of waving good-bye.
But in 1994, to ease my sadness about leaving, I decided to take more pictures. I was thinking that even if I had to drive away, at least I would have a photograph of Mom and Dad, somehow preserving their presence in my camera. And I started a tradition. From then on, every time I left I took a photo as I backed out of the driveway.
Here are 27 good-byes.
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I saw this book in person. I wept reading it. It totally snuck up on me. It’s an honest matter-of -fact document of love with a pacing and austerity that cuts through all manner of artsyness and style. Simply brillant.
Very touching. I can feel the love in this home.
Great concept. Takes lots of planning ahead and deliberation, plus a willing subject.
I’ve known Deanna’s parents almost as long as I’ve known her, since the early 80’s. They have been amazing subjects for Deanna’s photography. Their faces and postures reflect delightful characters.
How absolutely precious Deanna!! Memories for a lifetime!! Love it.
Deanna, this is wonderful. Thank you.